Considering mediation instead of a traditional divorce? You’re likely a great candidate! Let’s dive into the three most common myths about divorce mediation—and why they’re simply not true.
Myth #1: Mediation Only Works if Both Partners Agree on Everything
The Reality: Mediation is designed to help couples work through disagreements. A skilled mediator guides the conversation and helps resolve areas of conflict, even if there’s tension or disagreement. You don’t have to be on the same page about everything to benefit from mediation.
Myth #2: Mediators Take Sides or Make Decisions for You
The Reality: Mediators are neutral facilitators. They don’t “side” with anyone or make decisions about what’s fair. Instead, they ensure that both parties have an equal voice and work to keep discussions focused and productive. Remember, the final decisions are in your hands, not the mediator’s.
Myth #3: Mediation is Only for Simple or Uncontested Divorces
The Reality: Mediation can be effective in complex cases too! Whether you’re navigating custody arrangements, asset division, or unique financial circumstances, mediation provides a structured process for working through details. Complex cases benefit from the flexibility and privacy of mediation.
